i was asked to share regarding a pair running shoes i picked up nearly a year ago. i'm all about pleasing the people.
after a couple years of running, here are a few of my shoe observations:
shoes and injury are siblings. and if you spent time in arkansas (or in west virginia for my rva friends), you know how special the sibling relationship can really be.
running shoes have a shelf life, rather a half-life. you can run x00 miles in a pair before you hang them up, but they are still good to do stuff. but shoes, like people, can loose that loving feeling.
things and shoes cost money. i realize that many people are not into the pay to run thing. all good. i'm down with fiscal responsibility, fewer regulations and the gospel.
neon colors are totally in right now. it's safe; it's fun; it's a reminder that the 80's were really on to something.
patches o'houlihan said running is all about: sweat, water, salt, bananas. and sweat.
cracked sidewalks, arched roads and trails tattooed with roots are a runner's red carpet. stride after stride, mile after mile, each step is a pounding. and yes i've seen the hippies who don't wear shoes, and the 5 finger excuse for a shoe.
i'm aware that this wasn't what the people had in mind…
actual comments about the shoe include:
neutral, minimalistic. mechanics and hikers know what i'm talking bout.
the most distinguishing feature of this ride is not the awkward mcdonald's colors; it's the midfoot pop platform. supposedly, this keeps you forward and hopefully fast. for me, it took some getting used to. as a result i actually hate walking in these shoes, but irony is so hip right now- so i do it anyways. ultimately, the platform has been helpful to my form, or the lack there of.
overall, these are a great trainer and race option. light and firm- still talking about shoes here team. but i didn't run these exclusively. these are not built for single track. there are days when i need more support. for me rotation is key. hashtag share the love.
financial reports indicate the comanche, texas newspaper is projecting bankruptcy next year after the loss of their one and only customer. i suspect a drop in ear plug sales across the metroplex.
i am also told that parked cars, street signs, and garage doors everywhere sighed with relief when "granny" died. i will forever wish that i had a picture of the rear end of her car that "she never hit anyone with."
"when you remember me, it means that you have carried something of who i am with you, that i have left some mark of who i am on who you are. it means that you can summon me back to your mind even though countless years and miles may stand between us. it means that if we meet again, you will know me. it means that even after i die, you can still see my face and hear my voice and speak to me in your heart. for as long as you remember me, i am never entirely lost... if you forget me, one of the ways i remember who I am will be gone. if you forget, part of who i am will be gone. the good thief said from his cross in luke 23:42. "jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom." there are perhaps no more human words in all of scripture, no prayer we can pray so well. ” (frederick buechner)
of all the things, what i may remember about my "granny" is a large rocking chair that sat at the corner of her garage and drive way- the tactical placement enabled her to see everything on the botom half of east leech street in kilgore, texas. she liked to yell- oops talk at all the neighbors and passer bys. that rocking chair now, and forever, sits empty. i will remember her there on her chair through hot texas summers with a large box fan blowing at her back. i will remember the tattered word search pages that were covered with your phone numbers. oh, and there's the pulse button, corded phone that half sat on the tool shelf.
as i grew older and moved away, i will remember her phone calls. not unlike the calls you have received from her over the years. i will remember her forcefully clearing her throat into the phone as she told an odd story she read in the dallas morning news as if it were gospel, then said with great force, "granny!" she would hang up before i ever got a word in. i will remember the nickname my friends in east texas gave her, "sergeant granny," which stuck not only because of her volume, but also her resilience in our small town.
i will remember b marie (swindoll) maxwell with joy and laughter. i believe that god creates all persons uniquely and in great love. never could this be more true than in the person of marie maxwell. she is indeed, one of a kind- and within her lives a love for you and for me and even for the stranger she just met at the gas station 5 min ago- this love can only come from the source of true love. i will remember the beautifully unique person god created in marie.
i will, remember.
henri nouwen says, "through memory, love transcends the limits of time and offers hope at any moment of our lives."
what will you remember?
"life does not cease to be funny when people die, any more than it ceases to be serious when people laugh." george bernard shaw
i suspect that many of our memories of marie are held close to our hearts with the bond of a chuckle.
did you know that marie was from pretty, texas?
did you know that she spent her wedding night in jail?
did you ever seen her laugh, yell and then start crying all in the same breathe?
in order to know this about her, you only needed to spend 5 and 1/2 unadulterated seconds in her joyous presence.
my own memory is neither vast nor rich enough to carry her legacy. your memory carries her too. your memory of her as an aunt, a neighbor, a church member, a granny, a loving wife, a mother, and those of you who are the "i dont know how we know her but it's like we are family." you too. held together, all of these memories re-imagine the mosaic stained glass named marie maxwell. and the light shines through it.
i believe that we hold her in our memory, not for the sake of our grief, but rather for hope. in the gospel of luke, the thief on the cross asked jesus, and he was indeed remembered in the kingdom come. and so we too remember marie, and we ask for her to be remembered, and i believe, in great-grace, god remembers her. in sadness, death swells our hearts, but in hope, god brings life again.
there is an age old art. a practice older than bekin's, older than texas and even older than the bible. and marie, i believe mastered the art form. more than crochet', maries' artistry was that of a story teller. the narrative of human history is dependent upon this practice, and marie was a lifelong keeper of it.
hear me out, i am not saying that all the stories she told, were exactly true- some of her stories were just that- stories. but i can say with certainty that marie's stories were told with purpose.
she told stories to teach, to comfort, to laugh, to love, to tease, and others, though she didn't know it, were told to put you to sleep. her stories and her life exaggerate with meaning. a worthy embelishment.
she told me stories about you, and about your parents, and your parent's neighbor's dog. she told the stories of our loving god and the stories of our broken world.
and in honor of marie, and the god who made her unique, i believe that we too can become story tellers.
i leave you with my own story of her: as young boys, richard, daniel and i were far from still or clean. she loved it. i remember countless, soccer, baseball and football games. between the three of us, there must have been hundreds! my hunch is that in all she missed only a handful of our home games including my college games in arkansas. most "ball games" (as she called them), were followed by her taking us to get a whopper at bk, and then eventually home. i can remember knock-down-drag-out-yelling matches between chuck, teresa and granny as to why they didn't want their 80 + year old mother driving by herself 9 hours to friday night's play off game in the middle of nowhere. i then remember chuck and teresa relenting and taking granny to those games. at home games, i rarely remember seeing her in the stands. but whether at the football stadium, the baseball park or the soccer field, one wouldn't need long to spot her, out of the corner of your eye, she was in her parked car with an advantageous view. she always had her windows down so she could talk to anyone who walked by. and if it happened to be one of your own games, and you didn't see her, all you had to do was wait for a goal to be scored, and sure enough the tired horn of a 99 white ford taurus would ring out as it were the israelites circling jericho. with that sound, i need not see granny, her car, her end zone dance, her smile, or her cane raised out of the window, for i knew she was there- with a large diet coke in the console, and like the spirit of god, she was there- always. and through the years, i developed a hunch that she would rather be at my game than in eternity with cecil. and though she missed and loved cecil with all of her soul, cecil could wait for his bride until after the game. for granny was staying for the 2nd half- and might i say "thanks be to god."
so as you go, as you laugh, as you cry and as you wonder- be a story teller. go tell the story of marie, the story of god- the story of life and love and all that falls between.